When you begin to think that there’s at least a 50% chance that your marriage may end in divorce, and if you’re not in marriage counseling, it’s probably time to commit to some very hard work with a marriage counselor. If you begin to think there’s a 70-80% chance that your marriage may end in divorce, then you may want to speak with a collaborative attorney to learn more about healthy ways to transition out of a marriage that might be beyond recovery. It’s generally better to have information about the process of divorce even before you become 100% convinced that your marriage is ending in divorce.